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June 11, 2008

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Terry Gault

Sue,

Thanks for relating the story and the stats. It sounds like most CEOs approach speaking invitations as a monologue instead of a dialogue: a serious mistake.

Presentations should always take the audience into account, and should therefore sound more like a dialogue than a monologue.

Dialogue refers to interacting in ways that build shared meaning, rather than colliding in ways that foster disagreement, frustration and confusion. It is a subtle process that may be difficult to understand, and even more difficult to actually create.

Dialogue has the ability to convert detractors into supporters, conflict into consensus, and add depth to business relationships.

A dialogue influences another's perspective by first demonstrating a deep understanding of the position you want to influence. People frequently resist attempts to be influenced by using the statement, "You just don't understand."

In a dialogue, your skills of collaborative inquiry and listening provide others with a profound sense of being heard. When we feel that we are heard, we become more willing to be open to another point of view.

The most effective presentations are always ones that keep the audience closely in mind.

Thanks for the post!

Jonathan Steele from Speechmastery

Your so right.

It is rather a simple concept but hard to understand for many.

The sooner you help everyone else get what they want, the sooner you will get what you want.

Thanks for the statistics.

James

Great post. I agree completely about putting the audience first - many speakers make the mistake of giving a speech that makes them feel good about themselves.

James
blog.jvf.com

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Books that Inspire Me

  • Nancy Duarte: Resonate: Present Visual Stories that Transform Audiences

    Nancy Duarte: Resonate: Present Visual Stories that Transform Audiences
    Emphasis is on stories: who acted, where were they, what obstacles did they face, how did they overcome them, and what was the end result? Every presentation or speech must include stories. Her recommendations meet my own definition of successful speaking: "Inspire Them First...Inform Them Later" (*****)

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